As some of you have already heard, Beth was diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago. We were originally told it was Endometrial Cancer, but after the total hysterectomy today, it appears that it is Uterine Cancer. Mom and I were with her today and had a talk with her Oncologist. Her Oncologist said she would indeed have radiation therapy and depending on the pathology reports, may also need chemotherapy. The pathology reports will not be in for about 3 days. She is expected to be in the hospital (University of Minnesota) until Friday or possibly Saturday.
She has had a rough couple of weeks taking all of this in, going through paperwork, etc., and I must say has taken it very well. I'll keep you updated.
Laura, I was so sorry to hear about Beth's cancer!! What is the prognosis for recovery? My mother in law had thyroid cancer (which is very deadly) and had radiation (not sure about chemo) and has been well for approximately 10 years. I don't remember exactly when she did all that but the kids were real little. She had everything done at MD Anderson. Isn't Minnesota also a place well known for their care of cancer patients?
I will pray for Beth and the rest of your family. Illness in the family affects everyone. Please keep us informed.
I'm so sorry to hear about Beth. Taking all of that in is tough. Yes, please keep us posted.
Laura -- I was terribly sorry to hear the news. Beth's attitude was wonderful, even though she admitted she was scared of the whole thing. She believed she wouldn't have to have any aftercare, that the surgery itself would be the "cure." Will she be able to take care of herself at home?
Thank you for your post and let us hear from you again.
Love, Aunt Ginnie
I am adding my prayers to the cacophany for Beth's total liberation from cancer. She is an example to us all for keeping one's chin up. Laughter is the best medicine, after radiation, that is.
A guy went to the doctor and said, "Doc, everytime I pass gas, it goes "honda." He asked for a demonstration, and sure enough the man broke wind and a definite "honda" sound came out. The doctor said, "Honda is a Japanese vehicle, I want to send you to my oriental partner upstairs." So, the man goes to the Dr. Wanahake and tells him the problem, demonstrates it, and Dr. Wanahake told him, "Ah, I see the problem. You have abscess tooth." The awestruck man said, "How did you know that?" Dr. Wanahake said, "Abscess makes the fart go honda."
Buddumbum.
Okay, so if that doesn't make you laugh, find something that will.
For shame. Are we talking about a person who just had an operation? And here I am, laughing hysterically and falling off my chair? What in this world! But you're right. I do feel better. Let us hope Beth will feel better soon as well.
Good morning. Just talked to Mom and she's going to attempt going to the hospital by herself. (She has navigational issues, we'll leave it at that.)
Janine, I loved your story and you're right, the humor needs to be there. I found something yesterday that I could not stop laughing at. The family waiting lounge is on 3rd floor overlooking the main lobby entrance. The gift shop is there, a coffee cart and lots of seating. About 1:30 while waiting for Beth to get out of recovery, a volunteer began playing beautiful music on the piano in the lobby. The 2nd song made me laugh so hard I had trouble telling Mom and the other woman we had befriended during our wait, why I was laughing. I found it funny that they were playing the theme song from MASH. Obviously they only knew it by that title and not the title of the song itself, "Suicide is Painless". Is that tacky or what?! I ran the gamut of emotions yesterday.
Joan and Mom will take her home from the hospital this weekend and one of them will stay as long as needed. I am going to Florida on Sunday on the trip I booked in October. I'll be back Thursday night and will pick up on whatever is needed then.
I must have missed the day that Beth's cancer was discussed. Anyway, so sorry to hear about that. I hope the Dr.'s that are treating her will help her with the best possible treatment. She couldn't be in a better state/hostpital. Carol
So sorry to hear about Beth. Family is wonderful. That fact has been very evident to me just after having Samuel. Illness in the family is hard for everybody. Take care of each other.
Beth: so sorry to hear of your cancer,surgery and probable radiation therapy. I'm glad your family can be with you. Keep thinking positive, say a prayer or 2 as will I.
Beth, I am thinking of you and praying for your speedy recovery.
Beth, my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you strength through this difficult time.
Laura, please send Beth our best wishes for a strong recovery. I truly believe with her positive attitude, and supportive family she can beat it. We are all praying for her!
Somebody was telling me about a famous man, a writer, who cured his cancer by holing himself into a hotel room and watching nothing but comedy for a month. Me and details aren't on good terms.
The night before Dad transitioned (I can say that instead of died), it was very cathartic to sit in a room with my siblings and watch National Lampoon's "American Vacation." It was one of those messages from heaven - to me - because it has always been my favorite movie since it came out. Funny stuff. The message was and is "everything is in divine order." Enjoy life while you are living.