Some emails are harder to write than others. This is one of them. We moved Mom into assisted living on Monday, July 30th. It's a one bedroom apartment. Nothing "nursey" about it. Needless to say she's not happy about it. We did not and were not able to give her a choice in the matter. You'll have to trust us to understand that we did what was right. It was not an easy decision. She thinks she is in a nursing home. She also wanted me to help her put on her Keds so she could get ready to ride the streetcar to work in the morning.
Her phone number has not changed. Her mail has all been forwarded to my house if you want to write to her. I know Beth talked to Aunt Ginnie so she's aware of what is happening. I saw Sally yesterday when I went to the doctor and I think Joan talked to Carol who will pass the word onto her folks. I know they have their family up this weekend so I'll give them a buzz next week.
Keep her in your thoughts and prayers.
Best wishes for Aunt Pat and her family.
Hopefully Auntie Pat will adjust quickly and smoothly. Not an easy decision for you "kids" to make but probably a much safer environment for her. Let us know if you need any help.
And I know you helped her put on her Keds for work. It's just the right thing to do. My mother told me during her last visit at Christmas 1973, that "the tail end of life is no fun." I thought that was a very clear statement from a befuddled mind and I've never forgotten that conversation. I'm sorry you've had to go through this very hard situation, but it will get better. It won't be long before she'll think this is where she's always been. God bless you children. I know you've done your very best.